Participation, Protection and Patriarchy: An
International Model for the Role of Women in ISKCON
Radha
Devi Dasi
[continued]
We can now examine the
presumptions that are prevalent in ISKCON against the standard Shrila
Prabhupada has articulated. My
perception, and others may disagree, is that we have a presumption
against women’s participation in ISKCON.
That presumption does not mean that women do not participate in
our movement. However, we
begin by presuming that women should not participate, and then place the
burden on women or their supporters to show why women should
be included. This
presumption needs to be reversed if we are to give women equal
encouragement to develop in their spiritual lives and serve Shrila
Prabhupada’s mission to the best of their abilities.
We should have a presumption of equal participation for both
genders. The burden then should be on those who argue that the role of
women should be circumscribed, for reasons of etiquette or social
custom, to articulate why and how such restriction relates to our goal
of spreading Krishna consciousness.
When we examine our
treatment of women in a logically rigorous manner, many of our practices
appear unreasonable. For
instance, we often speak of "protecting" women whenever we are
accused of gender discrimination. Disparate
practices are held to be necessary and even beneficial to women on the
grounds that women need special forms of protection.[xix]
However, this justification for discriminatory practices is
incomplete. Those who would
use it must define what it is that women are being protected from.
Current ISKCON practice supports best the argument that women are
being protected from participating.
Moreover, we must also decide what the form of that protection
should be.
For
instance, American law requires that restrictions that limit rights must
relate to an important governmental purpose and be as narrowly defined
as possible. ISKCON could
use similar principles in its treatment of women, requiring that
restrictions on their participation be related to the goal of spreading
Krishna consciousness and that these limits be as narrow as possible.
We must first ask what
Shrila Prabhupada intended ISKCON to protect women from. For this, we
can consult his writings on the subject.
The most obvious context in which Shrila Prabhupada discussed
protection occurs in the first chapter of the Bhagavad-gita.
Arjuna tells Krishna that when irreligion is prominent, women are
prone to degradation. Arjuna
informs Krishna that such women may bear unwanted children to the
detriment of society. In
his purport to this verse, Shrila Prabhupada says that women are prone
to being misled by irresponsible men and that the cause of their fall
down is mixing too freely with men.[xx]
If that is the kind of protection we are discussing, then I do
not understand how the dearth of women on the Governing Body Commission
(GBC)[xxi]
or discouraging women from accepting management positions in our
movement protects us from sexual exploitation.
Such an argument requires a belief that the men we would be
working with under such circumstances are irresponsible men. The rules ISKCON uses in this context do not appear
rationally related to the purposes Shrila Prabhupada has described for
us.
The next question is what
form should this protection take? In ISKCON, we have an unspoken
assumption that protection means restriction.
We protect women by telling them "you can’t" and
taken to its extreme form this instruction becomes, "you can’t
leave the house."[xxii]
Even in slightly less restrictive contexts which permit women to
attend worship at ISKCON temples, making flower garlands for the deities
is sometimes seen as the most suitable service for a woman.
There is some similarity between the protection model currently
applied to women in ISKCON and the techniques I use in raising my
children. I give my
children crayons and colouring books and protect them by instructing
them to sit quietly and colour. Women
in ISKCON get colourful bundles of carnation blossoms along with
tapestry needles and string. We
are instructed to sit quietly and make flower garlands.
In ISKCON, the current perception seems to be that women are
comparable not only to children, but to very young children.